Your Stuck Type playbook
You're good at your job — probably better than half the people getting promoted around you — but the people who actually decide can't see it. Good news: this is the most fixable place to be stuck. Nothing's wrong with your work; you've got a visibility problem, not a talent problem.
Here's the hard truth I learned the slow way: it doesn't matter how good you are if the person on the promotion panel can't see the evidence. Being quietly brilliant feels noble. It's also a brilliant way to stay exactly where you are. Let's sort it.
When I was coming up I tried to be good at everything and ended up being memorable for nothing. Pick one thing you want to be the go-to person for, and (nicely) bang on about it until other people say it back to you — "oh, ask her, she's the one who turns a mess of data into a decision." That reputation is what gets you into the room.
Nobody got promoted for a to-do list. Every time you'd describe what you did, describe what changed because of it, in numbers. And start a brag doc — one note where you dump every win and every nice bit of feedback the moment it happens. Come promo season, half your case is already written and you're not sat there blanking when someone asks what you achieved this year. Measure the gain, not the gap.
A mentor gives you advice over a coffee. A sponsor is the one banging the table for you in the promo panel when you're not in the room — and that's who actually moves your career. Find two or three senior people whose life you can genuinely make easier, do work that makes them look good, and then — this is the bit everyone skips — actually tell them what you're going for.
Spicy one, but I stand by it: "just be yourself" is one of the worst pieces of career advice going. It doesn't mean change your values — it means clock what the room rewards and manage your public image on purpose. Your promotion is basically a story other people tell about you when you're not there. Give them a good one.
And while we're here — the bits of your story you're a bit embarrassed about? Those are usually your edge. I grew up behind the till in my family's newsagent and spent years hiding it, until I was the only person in the room who actually understood a retail client. Your story is your unfair advantage. Use it.
Don't try to do all four perfectly — just do the first one this week. Measure the gain, not the gap.
— Kajol, your corporate aunty 👋🏽
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